Title: Dating Dr. Dil
Author: Nisha Sharma
Series: If Shakespeare Was an Auntie #1
Rating Out of 5: 5 (I will read this again and again and again)
My Bookshelves: Contemporary, Contemporary romance
Pace: Medium
Format: eBook, Novel
Year: 2022

Not only was this a fantastically fun and cute contemporary romance, but I also loved the insight it gave into the immigrant experience of South East Asians in the Northern Hemisphere. Which meant that I got to enjoy not only a great romance full of humour and wit, but also, I got to learn a whole lot more about the ways in which other people live and experience the world – a win win in my books. Sharma not only constructed a wonderful romance, but she also highlighted some of the unique challenges experienced by those who have a different cultural background / come from an immigrant family within western worlds. And how these things can clash with the way that the world is perceived and people grow up. A topic that I, honestly, find endlessly fascinating.

I love that this story discussed love marriages as opposed to arranged marriages, why both points of view are such an integral part of different cultures. Plus, there’s the whole idea of how arranged marriages actually occur in our modern society – it’s not as forceful as I once may have believed. But, rather, a negotiation in which the couple is able to meet and get to know each other before taking that plunge. I mean, we all live longer today, so it’s nice to know that this is a relationship that is still built on two people getting to know one another, just with vastly different expectations than what I expect from a marriage. Which, again, I loved getting this point of view in my life. I couldn’t put it down and found it quite unforgettable.

Honestly, I was kind of expecting Dr. Dil to be more of a pain in the bum, and unlikeable male lead. Particularly after reading some of the reviews for Dating Dr. Dil. I mean, he’s kind of pushy and keeps on pursuing something that has the huge potential to hurt Kareena. Even when he acknowledges the potential for fall out, he continues to pursue the relationship because of his own benefits. This shouldn’t have made for a likeable character. And yet, somehow, he was incredibly wonderful. There was just something about him, that, even in spite of his nonsense, makes you like him. Not judge him quite so likely for his nonsense with Kareena and somewhat poor decision making. Plus, the problematic behaviour at the beginning leads to some great character development throughout the story.

Kareena is my absolute favourite. I mean, she’s loyal to her family and loves them, even when they are somewhat toxic. But, she’s also strong, independent and able to stand on her own two feet. I love that even though she is trying to conform to society’s and her family’s expectations, she’s also doing it in her own way, under her own steam. Plus, eventually, she manages to make a little bit more separation from the toxicity of her family, even if it isn’t a total separation (which I don’t ever believe is the answer either). I love that in the end, there are acknowledgements of the faults in the dynamic, and a way to start moving forward.

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